I’m afraid of dumping my girlfriend, she beats me up


I AM a 24-year-old man and my girlfriend humiliates me and controls my life.

I want to leave her but I’m ashamed because people will know that she beats me.

What’s even worse is that I’m unemployed and I rely on her to support me and the kids.

I still love her but I can’t stand the humiliation.



Dear Humiliated

You’re in a toxic relationship that creates a form of comfort and starts to feel normal.

It’s understandable that you should feel trapped, because you’re financially dependent on her. But it’s important for her to seek help.

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