She says I’m useless when it comes to sex and that I have a small manhood


Dear aunty,

I’m a 25-year-old guy in a new relationship. I once dated a woman who had anger issues. She used to tell me I was useless in bed and had a small “weapon”. I fear being intimate with my new girlfriend as I feel I may disappoint her. I want to build a life with her but how do I get over my fear?



=== RESPONSE ====

Dear Brother

You won the battle when you walked away from a toxic relationship! Although breaking free can be liberating, you need to give yourself time to recover.

This helps you avoid transferring baggage into a new relationship. It’s vital to note that the way you were treated doesn’t reflect who you are. Talk to your new partner about your concerns and believe in yourself.

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